Whisper In My Ear
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I am very happy to introduce Whisper In My Ear (the contact phrase I use from my blog). This a page dedicated to comments/opinions/views from you, the readers/site visitors.

I have received numerous emails, whether comments or questions and decided that it was time to share these with you. I, of course, get permission prior to posting and do not use real names or email addresses. Please read the Privacy Policy page if you are at all concerned. I will be directing you from my blog and the Home page as it is updated.

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Online Stories

"I've dated online before, and I find that it doesn't work. People are different online than they are in person. I've found that the majority of people are looking for love online for a reason. Big ones being that they're conventionally physically unattractive and therefore not confident, they live with overbearing controlling parents, or they're very religious. While there are 'normal' people looking online, they're hard to find. I agree that physical appearance isn't the most important thing in a relationship, but it's important. No matter how much you may have in common with someone, if you don't find them physically attractive, it won't work. If I don't find you physically attractive, I won't want to date you. "

"P"

Same Sex Love

This was the topic of my blog on July 9th & 10th. This is one of the responses I received and published with permission.

Love is Love.

People need to be comfortable with what they feel is NATURAL to them - REGARDLESS of what anyone says. As long as there is no physical harm or intentional harm - Love is Love. I find it pathetic that there are people in society that view samesex love as wrongful. There are many 'heterosexual loves' that are WRONGFUL. Full of disrespect and full of dishonesty.

LOVE is the only TRUTH and everyone is entitled to bask and rejoice in it's GLORY. Forgive the ignorance of those that make it difficult to LIVE and LOVE FREELY! For anyone out there who is reading ... LOVE is YOUR RITE! Go and CLAIM it!

~digital_femme

What Is Beautiful & Sexy To You?

This was the topic of my blog on July 3rd. This is a response I received and published with permission.

"Hmmmmm .. what is sexy to me?

Well let's see, there's no doubt that a good fit body in just the right clothes or a handsome face - whatever the flare, will illicit a 'double take' from me. And if I get close enough and happen to smell something enticing in terms of 'scent' that TOO adds to the spice.

I like hands. Nice long fingers, clean nails etc. I like eyes - deep, as if one can find the secrets to a soul thru them (are you kidding! I just had to put that blurb in there).

I like noses. Strong looking/yet delicate ones, nicely shaped, and even if they have some sort of defect, that can be sexy too - as long as they don't have elephantitis! And I find that the big nose thing is a myth, as are all the other myths.

I like anything really that appeals to me at the moment. But if I really, really had to be honest and look into my idea of sexiness with a fine tooth comb then nothing weighs more than a 'beautiful mind'. The ability to communicate feelings, the compassion to understand, the open mindedness to accept and hear NEW thoughts and basically a level of intellect that is MOST stimulating and leaving you craving for more. Okay, okay, I have to admit, I'm a sucker for a good mind f*ck!"

~ digital_femme

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Last Updated: January 17, 2005

Whisper In My Ear Comments From Our Readers

Online Stories

Same Sex Love

What Is Beautiful & Sexy To You?

Whisper In My Ear
Comments From Our Readers