The old year is over and the New Year has begun and we all hope for better things in our life. For those who are looking for love, this is when we hope that we will find our love, our soulmate –   ’this year’  – so we don’t have to be alone at this time next year.

You don’t!

Look at this process the same way you would the other changes in your life for the ‘new year’.  For example you may want to lose weight.  But if you say “I want to lose weight” that doesn’t give you a goal.  It is not detailed enough. ”I want to lose 10 pounds” does!  So when thinking of the love you want to find here are some ideas:

* I want a kind person
* I want a loving person
* I want a giving person
* I want a funny person
* I want to find a person who loves cats

Now, while you do this try to create the person, the love you are looking for, in your mind without the “looks”.  Try to build from the inside out. Why do I say that?  Well though what someone looks like does matter if they don’t have all the ‘inner’ attributes you are look for it doesn’t matter how they look because it will never work.

So… start you ‘new year’s list’ of to find your love online!

I’d love you to share you list with me

Jan