I had a dream last night that I wanted to share with you.
 
In the dream I met a woman and she asked me how old I was and I told her.  She looked surprised and went to get her husband to see me.  She then told him how old I was.  He said “she looks good for not being photoshoped”. Strange dream
 
For those of you who do not know photoshop, what photoshop can do is change an image to make it look very different from the original.  So if you have a photo of yourself and it is altered in photoshop you could look years younger.
 
I wanted to talk to you about this today because of how important it is that when you are involved in online dating you put up a picture that looks like you now – not 10 or so years ago.  I know it is tempting if they are a few lines or not as much hair, but keep in mind that you wanting to meet your mate and that means actually meet them – in person.  So if you don’t use an up-to-date photo in the beginning your first meeting could be quite a shock.