Many people make a decision to try online dating because they think that dating people online is probably the fastest, surest and most effective way to go.

This can be true, but if you REALLY want to find the love of your life there are some steps I think you need to take first.

Write a list.  Yes that’s right.  Make sure you are clear on:

* What you do want and why. Make a list of the perfect mate for you. It is more imporatant to list everything first prior to the physical appearance. Why? If you find that pefect ‘one’ appearance is always secondary, unless that is all you care about. If that is the case don’t look for love, look for ‘lust’.

* What you don’t want. This list will go on the same page as what you do want, but cover such things as ‘going out with the guys/girls, drugs, etc.

* Visualize and feel what it would feel like to have what you want, this person, in your mind and in your heart. This is soooooooo important. When you know what it is you DO want and Do NOT want, you can almost see the person, feel them, touch them.

Keep this inside of you, and your heart, and ask the God(s) to help you find this person each time you go on your online dating site.

This was the most important step I took to find my love online (7 years married this year) other than both of us using Lavalife

I’d love to hear your success story!

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