Online Dating - A Fair Of Love
Sunday, June 27, 2004
Out For A Good Time, Not A Long Time...Ah Kink!!
I have a new link on the Adult Oriented Links Page called "Alt". This site is not for the faint of heart, so to speak, but for those who are into "kink", which can take on several different forms. You can read a full review of Alt.
I know some reading this blog will think that I shouldn't have a site like this up at Online Dating Resources while others will be thrilled to see that their preferences are represented. My feeling on this is that love comes in many forms, and that as long as we are not hurting anyone else we are entitled to love each other in any way we chose.
If you check Online Dating Resources you will see that I have different 'online dating love links' depending on what may be of interest to you. I have general love links and Baby Boomers Links and Religous Love Links and as well Same Sex Love Links because I want to make sure that I am giving online dating love sites to everyone, no matter what their beliefs, sexual orientation or kink.
In my opinion, and by all means tell me if you disagree, I think that love takes on many forms, but whatever form it takes on, love is love. My only bottom line is that I do not believe anyone should hurt another when striving for love, unless you like pain of course
So, if you are UP for it...go have a look at Alt. Hope you find the Kink you are looking for!
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Leith
You know what to do, just put your lips together and blow in my ear
Thursday, June 24, 2004
Perfect Match
I have been bad updating my blog in the last few days, but you know how life can get in the way!
I have finally put up the new Success Story at Online Dating Resources. I am always sorry that I have to cut it so much, but if I wrote all that was sent to me I would have pages and pages. In this particular case, J.M. just saw the name of this online dating site and it struck her so much that she decided to try it. The 'short of the long of it' is that she was thrilled with the everything the site had to offer and the man she finally found. Do read about it!
It's funny/strange what may draw you to an online dating site. It could be the name, the picture(s) on the site, or maybe a live chat/video they offer. Whatever it is that draws you, trust the instinct because we all have those feelings inside if we just listen to them. I really believe when you feel a 'draw' to something like that it means there is something very special just waiting for you, and in the case of J.M. and others who have messaged me, it is true. I know it was true for me!!
I also wanted to let you know that I have added a few more online dating web sites to the Love Links page. These are a must check out!!
Almost Friday which means mucho time to spend searching for love....
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Leith
You know what to do, just whisper in my ear
Sunday, June 20, 2004
More Online Dating Expansion
Your input is important to me and you have said that too many images on our online dating site pages make it to slow to load. We do listen to YOU and I have made major changes!!
Announcing the new Love Links page, Adult Oriented Links page, Baby Boomers Links page and Same Sex Links page which are now purely text with links to full reviews on individual pages. No more slow loading and the reviews have been expanded.
It has taken me at least 160 hours to do this, but I knew you would find it so much easier and I know the expanded reviews are wonderful. I wish I had them when I was looking for an online dating site.
So do enjoy...and keep the comments coming, after all....I listen when you whisper in my ear....
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Leith
Friday, June 18, 2004
Online Dating Love Links and You Love It!!
I am so thrilled that after working for more than 16 hours to change the Love Links page from being so slowed down from all the images and creating new pages for each Online Dating Site, that from the people I have heard from, so far, you are thrilled!! Yesssssssss!!! You know that my main goal here is to bring you the best Online Dating Sites, with my reviews, so YOU can decide where you should go to find what you are looking for. I had heard, but also knew from my own experience, that the other page just loaded too slowly, so how was I helping you?!! So do keep the comments coming 'cause I listen.
I do have a new success story to tell you. Will do my best to get it up tomorrow.
Friday night...are you onlining?
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Thursday, June 17, 2004
News
***NEWS*** COME ON IN AND SEE!!!
I have had many messages telling me that the Love Links Page was just too slow loading with all the wonderful online dating sites I had in there. Well....I listened!!
What I have done is turned the Love Links Page to a straight text link page to all the great online dating sites and put a link to the full review, a new page for each individual online dating site, under the brief description. This should make the loading MUCH faster and you can go off and read more about the online dating sites that interest you.
I will be doing this with Adult Oriented Online Dating Sites, Baby Boomers Online Dating Sites and Religious Online Dating Sites in the near future. It takes a long time to make these changes so I hope you will understand.
Sooooooooooo.......What Do You Think??!!
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Tuesday, June 15, 2004
This Online Dating Site Is Soooooo Romantic!!
I try not to give my own opinion about online dating sites, because there are so many that I know that I would just be rambling on in the blog about each and every one of them. So I do a review of the online dating sites at Online Dating Resources and hope that you can decide from my reviews which online dating site is best for you.
But today I received a message from C.F. who went to Romance Link and their experience was so positive and they are so happy with the experience and the love they found I just had to tell you about it. I have been very impressed with Romance Link Online Dating site. All you have to do is just go through the tutorial to see how different it is from some of the others (I am not talking about any other online dating sites that I have on my web site).
After hearing from C.F. and the joy of the experience and the love they found I just had to bring this one to your attention in case you have missed it. Worth a look, even more worth a try. Hey you can sign up for free.
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Sunday, June 13, 2004
Online Dating Resources - A Change In Layout
Well I have finally decided that with all the online dating links I have that I am going to have to sort them better so you can easily find them. Love links is a good example with at least 20 in there. You must look at the list and just give up, or click on a couple and say forget it.
So what I am going to do is basically keep the same pages but create an individual page for each online dating site with the full review. This is a big task so it will take me days to do it, as I have a business to run as well, so please be patient while I work this out to serve you better.
Hope you all had a great weekend and are still onlining tonight!!
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Leith
Saturday, June 12, 2004
Online Dating - Love versus Lust & Beyond
When I started Online Dating Resources I had to make a decision regarding what kind of online dating membership sites I wanted to put up. I wanted it to cover 'true love' online dating and stay away from the more "alternative" sites. Of course I found that, in some respects, this is difficult to do.
First and foremost I wanted to help people who were looking for love through an online dating site. But when you think of 'love' you also have to consider adult, same-sex, single parents, deaf singles, STD singles, and yes, the 'alternative' lifestyle. Just because the majority may not think that there is love involved in an 'alternative' lifestyle, I do know there is. No, I am not personally involved in it, but yes I do know others that are, and very happily so.
The 'alternative' lifestyle can be S&M, B&D,fetishes, multi-partner play, cross-dressing,etc. The bottom line in love, and even in love online, is that as long as who you are communicating with, and meet, is into what you are then it's ok. I never have and never would judge anyone for what they enjoy that I may not be into. Doesn't make it wrong and I hope I have reflected that on the web site.
So I have actively gone out to find many different type of online dating sites, including 'normal' online dating, to 'religious' online dating to 'alternative' online dating. If I have missed anything that you feel would be a benefit, please let me know.
BTW, on the About Us" page I finally uploaded an drawing of me and my man, and yes we did meet at an online dating site. Hope you like it!!
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Leith
Friday, June 11, 2004
Something New And Exciting
Well I have a couple of things to tell you about tonight. The first is a found a new link today that is certainly going to help your 'love life'. I have to say that I have already bought one, I mean who wouldn't, and can hardly wait until it get it!! You have to check it out at Links To Experience page at at Online Dating Resources. The site is called Liberator Shapes and you just have to check it out to see how it will help your love relationship.
I also wanted to tell you that I worked my "artistic magic" and took a picture of me, Leith, and made it look kewl, with all sorts of different 'magical spells', and you know how I like them. I hope you like it!!
TGIF...and may your find your love online tonight!
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Leith
Thursday, June 10, 2004
I Need Your Opinion...Oh Come On!!
I have had a couple of comments about the table on the index page on Online Dating Resources. What I have been told is that everything looks great on the page until they get to the table that lists the pages, with images, and what has been updated. Soooooooooooooo....what do you think? Do you like the layout or do you think it should be changed?
I would REALLY appreciate your comments 'cause I want to do this site for you!!
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Leith
Sooooooooooo....are you going to whisper in my ear.....
Wednesday, June 09, 2004
Online Love....No Online Love For Me!!
Ya, ok, this is a bit of a "whimper". I haven't heard from anyone for a couple of days now and I am starting to feel that "Online Love" may not relate to me...you know, no love online! Ya, go ahead, big sigh and say "give it a rest".
Anyone who writes a blog knows that it is really important to get feedback from what they say. When 'we' write, we are actually talking to you, though in some respects it is like we are talking to ourselves. The only way we know that our words are not just going out into 'air' never to be seen again, is when we hear something from someone(s) who have read what we have said and like/dislike/hate/love what we have said. Comments, good or bad, are better than no comments at all
Now that I got that out of the way
I have something new to tell you about! I found a new online dating site today that I am very excited about. You can view it at links of love or go to I Want U. It is very similar to Lava Life, Passion and Adult Friend Finder but with a twist. You have to go to see what the twist is
The mid week HUMP is over and soon the weekend when we can all play!!
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Leith
Sooooooooooo....are you going to whisper in my ear.....
Tuesday, June 08, 2004
Finding Love...A Spell To Find Love
I have always been a great believer in spiritual/supernatural powers. I know I have some myself. I have been able to see and predict things from a very young age. I feel the difference in the moon and tides and many other things. When I found California Astrology Association when I was looking for love I just knew that they had the help and answer for me.
I found them, I ordered the product, which was a Love Spell and it sat in the package for a good long time. I decided that I needed to know exactly what kind of Love it was I wanted to find. Not just the physical looks, but the personality, who they were inside, so many things. Once I had figured out exactly what Love I wanted to find I decided it was time. I did everything told me to do, and I recited what it was I wanted to find in my perfect love.
I just knew that from what I had done that the right avenue would present itself. The right avenue was online dating . Yes that is where I found him.
I do know that is from the spell that I did from Love Spell The California Astrology Association and that it never would have happened without both of them.
If you doubt what I am saying contact me I will personally tell you my experience.
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Leith
I'm listening.....
Monday, June 07, 2004
Cybersex - Is It Wrong To Talk About?
I wrote a new page for Online Dating Resources on cybersex and I have had a number of not so nice comments about it. If you wish you can read it at http://www.onlinedatingresources.com/cybersex.htm.
I do understand that this is may not be a subject that the 'general population' wants to read or talk about, however the facts are that it DOES happen and I think it is best to talk about it openly and honestly. IF you have read the article (page) you will see that I am talking about both the positive and negative aspects on cybersex.
The positive certainly involves couples in a long distance relationship who need to connect lovingly and sexually when they are apart. This is a very intimate way to communicate and love each other when they are apart and it keeps them close and connected. As well, it can be a very postivie experience for people who have a disability, to a point that they cannot or do not have a 'in person' relationship. Whether it be a physcial or mental disability, this may be the one love outlet they have. For people in this situation it is almost critical that they have this kind of contact as they don't have any other 'two way' sexual contact, and personally I see nothing wrong with this activity at all.
The negative involves people who participate in cybersex when they have a partner or mate who has no idea what is going on when they are not around. This can, and does, ruin relationships. I would be the first person to tell someone not to participate in cybersex if they are not prepared to lose their relationship. Chances are they will do it, if they are driven to that kind of activity, even if they know the consequences.
The worse cases are sexual predators, which I did discuss in my article. In no way, shape, or form, do I promote or condone someone who goes online to get their 'kicks' with someone who is underage, unaware or unwilling. This to me is not cybersex.
I guess my bottom line here is that in most cases I do not believe there is anything wrong with cybersex.
I am, as always, open to comments.
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Leith
I'm listening.....
Saturday, June 05, 2004
The Wonders Of Video
I had a email today from a man who connected with a new love through Cupid Cams. He was just so thrilled with the difference it made to him connecting with someone he could actually hear and see. He was intially very reluctant to try online dating.
Cupid Cams is one of the first to bring video to online dating. There are others out there now using it, but he saw the link on Online Dating Resources and decided that he wanted to be able to see who he might be meeting and not just a picture. It worked out wonderfully and he is so happy.
T.S. please do let me know the outcome of your meeting. I just "love" when people find "love".
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Leith
I'm listening.....
Thursday, June 03, 2004
Online Dating Resources - NEW Additions!!
I am very happy to announce that these pages have just been added today.
1. New special love links, LOVE GAMES ROMANCE SUITE. Do have a look at the new page and wonderful love products!
2. A new article on Cyber Sex. More to come on this topic soon!!
3. Introducing our new sister site "Find Your Love Online", which we hope you can read all about.
I was so excited to get these up tonight that they are only listed on the index page right now. Promise I will have them on the menu tomorrow. I am sure you will enjoy each one of them...and you will tell me won't you!
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Leith
I'm listening.....
Wednesday, June 02, 2004
Long Distance Online Love
For those of you who visit, or have visited Online Dating Resources you know I have talked about the issue of a long distance online love relationship. Personally, I have had two relationships that were long distance. In both cases I met my 'online love'. In both cases the online connection was wonderful, and the meeting(s) were great. In both cases they fell apart.
A long distance online love relationship is not an easy relationship to take on. It is wonderful to talk to the person online, exchange pictures, cards, etc. I honestly think that what you develop, in so many respects, is so much stronger than what you would develop in person. You spend so much time talking and sharing, every little bit of you. It is a wonderful experience and I would not change what happened to me for the world. One of the things you have to be careful of with a long distance relationship is the temptation of something that is closer. And yes, that can be someone 'they' find online that is closer.
So how do you know if it is going to work on not? Good question. I think, in truth, that if you have any 'gut instinct' that will tell you, especially on first meeting. If everything feels fine then, have a 'feel' when you talk to them after the meeting. Still feel good? Chances are it is ok.
With me in one case I had no idea when he left that it was over, and basically it was, though I didn't know it for some time after he left. You could say he just kept 'playing' with me while he was 'playing' with someone else. In the other case I had no idea it was over and I don't think he really wanted it over either. I just think it was too hard for him to be so far apart. But of course, if it was really love that would not have mattered, at least that is what I believe.
I have known and do know people that are in long distance relationships and they work. Of course it will not always be long distance, but they love each other enough to wait until circumstances allow them to be together. Not only am I happy for them but I also know that when they are together it has the best chance of being forever.
I hope your long distance love relationship works. If I can offer any advice, help or encouragement just let me know. To do that you know the drill below!
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Leith
I'm listening.....
