I had a dream last night that I wanted to share with you.
In the dream I met a woman and she asked me how old I was and I told her. She looked surprised and went to get her husband to see me. She then told him how old I was. He said “she looks good for not being photoshoped”. Strange dream 🙂
For those of you who do not know photoshop, what photoshop can do is change an image to make it look very different from the original. So if you have a photo of yourself and it is altered in photoshop you could look years younger.
I wanted to talk to you about this today because of how important it is that when you are involved in online dating you put up a picture that looks like you now – not 10 or so years ago. I know it is tempting if they are a few lines or not as much hair, but keep in mind that you wanting to meet your mate and that means actually meet them – in person. So if you don’t use an up-to-date photo in the beginning your first meeting could be quite a shock.
If you are nervous to show the ‘real you’ don’t be. There are lots of people out there that are not comfortable with certain aspects of their appearance. But I do believe that there is a perfect match for everyone, no matter how you look.