Language of Online Love

Connecting Online

Your profile and picture are up. You have browsed around and there is someone special you want to connect with. Depending on what type of Online Dating site you have subscribed to, your Language of Love will vary, for example from a religious online dating site to an adult online dating site. If you have joined a site like Talk 121, your communication will be completely different because you can hear each other.

Friendship Communication

If you are a bit hesitant about jumping right in, possibly because of bad dating experiences, maybe there has been a recent break-up, divorce, or maybe you are just shy, start off by finding friends is a good way to start the process. When you communicate with someone you 'just' want to be friends with, try your best to say this right up front. If the person you are talking to is looking for a 'soulmate' he or she may not be interested in "wasting time". On the other hand, you may find that the person is in a similar position as you.

Talk about your likes/dislikes, hobbies, movies, books, anything that allows each of you to not only share who you are but become more comfortable with the connection.

Love Communication

Friendship is fine but YOU are looking for love! Don't jump to fast or you may scare him or her away. When you make the connection be open and friendly. Oh yes, do say that you are interested in finding that someone special, that may move the conversation along quite well. It may also make the other person a bit nervous. Take time to test the waters (so to speak).

Looking for a love connection does mean you want to get to know each other extremely well to see if you are compatible. As much as you want to share who you are, make sure you listen to who 'they' are. If you don't enjoy listening to them, you might as well move on.

Alternative Communication

If you are a member of an adult online dating site your communication will be quite different than described above. Basically, you are all there for the same reason, in one respect, but you also have to take into account at least a couple of things.

Your contact may be a member but a bit shy and insecure about this new adventure.
Members will have different reasons for being there. Could be for friendly sex or maybe S&M, make sure you are up-front about what you want and are into.

Even in adult sites you will find members that are looking for love, maybe with a twist, maybe not. So when communicating I wouldn't advise something like "Hey baby, want to f&*#. Chances are you will be black listed from that contact. Be open, honest, friendly, talk and laugh and share what your into.

When communicating, make sure you are both on the same "wave length". You don't want to find out that you wanted a three-some when the other is only into discipline. Surprises, no matter what language your are speaking, is not usually a happy surprise. You may have found a love but can't live with their 'kink'.

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Last Updated: July 30, 2006